One of the days I would never forget in my life was the day I received a resounding slap from our former Principal, Mrs. Akinrinmade who we used to call “Iya” in those days.
I used to consider myself a gentle girl back then because I never got into trouble in school (not serious trouble anyways!). However, this very day, I got into Iya’s trouble, though through no fault of mine. We were preparing for our final exams so most of us used to attend extramoral classes at one Nursery School not far from our school (I’ve forgotten the name). This fateful day, I never had the premonition that trouble was lurking in the dark. I was at the extramoral classes as usual when a friend of mine came and I saw her off. On my way back, I jammed into Iya, “where is Jumoke?” She shouted. In my head I was asking myself, “who is Jumoke?” because I was totally confused and frightened. Who wouldn’t be frightened of Iya? Before I could utter a word, the next thing I heard was “kpaaa!!!” Chai, ki leleyi? Very terrible hot slap! I saw stars. My brain finally formatted and was reset, I then remembered who Jumoke was! I was like, I don’t know where she is ma. Another slap! I started crying (big girl like me o!) She didn’t believe me so she seized my scarf and belt and left, me that I had “ajankolokolo” on my head, I had no choice but to go home like that. I cried until I got home and narrated the whole ordeal to my Mum (mind you my Mum and Iya were acquaintances then).
It was the next day I got to know the reason behind those horrible slaps.
That very day was Jumoke’s birthday and Kunle (omo Iya) bought her a birthday gift. Iya got to know about it and she came charging to the venue of the extramoral classes to look for them. Unfortunately she met me and I received those slaps on their behalf!
The next day in school, Iya sent for me, Jumoke’s uncle was already in her office. After series of questions and answers, she got to know I was innocent so I was left off the hook. As I was leaving her office, my Mum arrived and Iya told her everything had been resolved.
It was the day I went to collect my testimonial that Iya released the seized items!
It was a terrible experience for me and till we passed out I never got to know why Kunle bought a birthday gift for Jumoke!
Does anyone know???🤷🤷🤷
***and Jumoke’s birthday every year has always been a sort of anniversary of that slap for me!
I can only wish I was able to give you a single answer about my experience in high school, but I can’t.
My secondary school life with my classmates has been so epic that it’s impossible to choose a single moment and deem it as the best one.
I would try really hard just to get some memorable moments down, because I have endless memories.
I made friends with almost all the girls in my year, even called older one’s aunties despite the fact that we were classmates. The thought of it now makes me laugh. I was friend with the boys too but never called anyone uncle(lol) We used to see each other everyday but now, we’re all scattered over the world.
I remembered our sport days especially Antonia week/ interhouse sport. I was in St Kizito’s house( Up Yellow house!!). Classes were suspended and we had the opportunity to participate in sports. I always opt for march past because it was easier and fun.
Our school shop was simply the best then, you could get nice snacks, my favourite first break snack was Sabella and doughnut and for second break I love onje Iya Jimoh. Our hangout was always under the tree (abe igi) it was later turned to hangouts for NFAs (No future ambitions) as it was popularly called then.
We had amazing English and French teachers and I would forever be grateful to them for such a solid foundation in languages – Mrs. Bamidele, Mrs. Gbegbaje, Mrs. Lambo, Mrs. Akinsanya, Mrs. Ayinmodu.
I gave so many nicknames to my classmates, this was a strategy I used to avoid being bullied by other students as I was one of the tiniest in class then. Guess what? It worked; a lot of the naughty ones avoided me because they didn’t want to be called names.
There were no cell phones to take pictures, anyone who wanted to get photographed had to go to a studio. Adams photo was our favourite then. We would organize with other classmates just to have a photo taken.
I don’t think I can forget St Anthony Secondary school Ilorin class of 90 set. If I have the opportunity to go back to high school, I will choose everyone again. Thanks to you all for enjoyable and memorable years together. We didn’t realize we were making memories; we just knew we were having fun!